Jay Nesbit, “The Pharmacist Wordsmith” September 19, 2024 – Life-Changing Words Post #31
Something to Hold Onto
Life is full of twists and turns, and if there’s one thing we all crave, it’s something to depend on. “People Need Something to Depend On—and Something to Love” because it’s what keeps us grounded. It’s not just about the comforts of everyday routines, but the certainty that something steady exists in a world that often feels unpredictable.
Even more than stability, we need something to love. The combination of having both security and love creates the foundation for a life filled with warmth and meaning. Without them, life can feel empty and hollow, like we’re missing the very things that make it worth living.
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The Need for Stability
Let’s be real, we all need stability. Not the “my house is spotless, and my life is completely organized” kind (if you’ve mastered that, teach me your ways). I’m talking about something that keeps us sane when life feels like a chaotic mess—because let’s face it, it often does.
For some, stability might come from a daily ritual, like having your coffee before the world demands anything from you. Or perhaps it’s having a go-to friend you can call when you need to vent about the fact that your favorite TV show just got canceled. Stability gives you that reassuring pat on the back, like, “Hey, it’s going to be okay, you’ve got this!”
We might not always notice it, but when we don’t have something reliable in our lives, everything feels like it’s in free fall. And let’s be honest, who wants to live in constant survival mode? I mean, sure, being spontaneous is fun, but I’m not trying to live like I’m constantly dodging meteors.
The Need for Love
Now let’s talk about love. Ah, love! The thing that makes us feel all warm and fuzzy inside, like a freshly baked cookie—except without the calories. Love doesn’t have to be all violins and candlelit dinners, either. It could be the joy you feel when your dog greets you like you’ve been gone for 10 years, even though you just went to check the mail.
Love is that thing that gives life its sparkle. Whether it’s love for a person, a pet, or even a hobby (I see you, knitting enthusiasts), it’s the thing that gets you through those long days where you feel like you just can’t even. Without love, everything starts to feel a little ‘meh.’ It’s like watching a movie with no plot. Sure, the popcorn’s great, but where’s the excitement?
When you have something to love, it’s like having your very own personal cheerleader. And who doesn’t want that? Plus, love gives you stories to tell later—like that time you accidentally started a garden and ended up loving it, even though you couldn’t keep a houseplant alive to save your life.
Finding Both in Everyday Life
So, how do we find both stability and love when life feels like a never-ending obstacle course? The good news: it doesn’t have to be complicated. Dependability often comes from the simple things—like the comfort of your favorite chair waiting for you at the end of a long day or that one friend who always shows up, no matter what.
Love, on the other hand, is all around us if we take the time to notice. It could be in the warmth of a cozy blanket you wrap yourself in every night or in the joy of a hobby that makes your heart race, even if others don’t quite understand it. The truth is, finding both love and something to depend on doesn’t require grand gestures; it’s the small, everyday moments that add up to a life full of meaning.
Conclusion: A Balanced Life
At the end of the day, having something to depend on and something to love keeps us balanced, like a life-sized see-saw that hopefully doesn’t send us flying. Stability keeps us grounded, while love keeps life fun and exciting. If life ever feels too crazy or, worse, a little boring, just remember: all you really need is a little love and a little dependability (and maybe a nap).
