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Jay Nesbit, Author of “Rise Above the Rut” – April 4, 2024 – Post #19
Feelings and opinions matter a lot. But what about how others feel and what they think? It’s a big deal, especially in a world that can be so baffling, overwhelming, and scary even. Taking a moment to really listen to what others are going through can be life-changing.
Think about it this way: When we talk about our feelings and thoughts, they’re not just our own. They’re connected to others and the world around us. They’re like a big mix of emotions, ideas, and beliefs that shape how we connect with others. It’s about showing respect and understanding for what makes each person unique and making sure they feel valued and respected
Showing that we care about how others feel isn’t just a cordial thing to do; it’s super important. Sometimes, we forget how much our actions can impact those around us. But even the smallest gestures, like a smile or a kind word, can make a dramatic difference.
For example, imagine a coworker struggling with a difficult project. By taking the time to truly listen to their concerns and offering support, you can make them feel understood and empowered to tackle the challenge. This simple act of acknowledgment, of their feelings and opinions, can boost their confidence and productivity, leading to success
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But it’s not just about saying the right things; it’s about really listening and being there for others. It’s about making them feel seen and heard, especially in a world that can feel so disconnected. And by doing that, we not only lift others up but also build stronger connections and communities.
Remember the last time someone really listened to you? It felt amazing, right? That’s the kind of impact we can have on others every single day. Whether it’s a friend, a family member, a neighbor, a fellow employee, or even a stranger, our words and actions can leave a lasting impression.
So, how do we make sure we’re making a positive impact? It starts with listening. Taking the time to understand how others feel and what they think. Letting them know that their voice matters and that they’re not alone.
In the end, everyone’s feelings and opinions matter. By acknowledging what others are going through, we show them that they’re not alone and that their experiences are valid. So, let’s spread kindness and understanding like confetti and watch as the world becomes a brighter, more beautiful place. Because, as Maya Angelou once said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
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